Tuesday, May 14, 2013

I Suck at Sexy

Not so sure about all of you guys, but I suck at sexy.
I mean I suck at dressing 'sexy'.

Don't get me wrong, I've worn my share of Vegas dresses, that are tight, and short, but that's not the sexy I am talking about here.
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Dang she's stunning, I'll probably never be that sexy!!
 
This is my deal:
V necks are far and few between, my dresses (minus work ones) are mostly college left overs, and date nights often consist of Target maxis, or Jeans and a 'cute' shirt.
 
I'm the girl that searches for the three C's when I shop.
 Comfort
Convenience
and
 Cuteness
And here is why.
Being sexy isn't a size, body shape, outfit, hair color, or make up; being sexy is
being confident and comfortable in who you are, relating and radiating towards
those around you, and confronting every day with as much 'kick' as you can give it.


To me dressing sexy is: 
Feeling confident in your outfit
Loving what your wearing
Wearing something that accentuates your personality.

I feel like I do all of these things, but I'm missing something.
An element of surprise perhaps.
Something out of my comfort zone that pushes the envelope.

Anyone have a tips? 
Help me!!!
stupid-kid
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12 comments:

  1. I definitely don't dress traditionally "sexy" either. Mostly because if I put on anything that shows the least bit of cleavage or upper thigh my boyfriend is like 'you're wearing that OUT?' But actually I kind of love that he's that way!

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  2. I totally know what you mean! Comfy is my go to look! I'm either in sweats and a t-shirt or jeans and a v-neck from Old Navy. Those are not the regular "sexy" vnecks, they're the "I don't want to dress up so this is as far as it's going to go" vnecks. I love them! You should deff. go try them!

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  3. Sexy just isn't my thing. Never has been, never will be. I guess it's the tomboy in me still.

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  4. Sorry, can't help you. I've always been "pretty" but never "hot" or "sexy." :(

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  5. ha, yeah I'm no help here. I don't score very high on the sexy meter. Probably because use terms like sexy meter.

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  6. I think you might be onto something with the whole "element of surprise" concept. Maybe doing something that is just a tiny bit out of your comfort zone would kind of catch your boyfriend off guard. Nothing too crazy, just a little different.

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  7. i am all with you about all of that!! definitely like your 3 C's!

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  8. hahahah I love this post! def agree

    love from San Francisco,
    Britt+Whit

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  9. I'm with ya on all of those. That's how I am too. and it's odd how now a days guys think certain things are sexy. You dont have to be in tight sexy clothes for them to say you're sexy.

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  10. I agree with you! and i have no idea with how to dress sexy. sorrryyyyy

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  11. Your "3 C's" is my kind of sexy! You are a rockin, tall blonde my friend..Gorgeous!

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  12. Meh! I think being you is the best kind of sexy. My husband thinks I am sexiest when I wear my nike shorts and chacos! In fact, I tend to go for the cute more than the sexy. Be yourself. Laugh. And smile. You don’t need to be anything else than what you already are!

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